Welcome to Couple Connection San Diego
Marriage Counselor in San Diego, California
Are you searching for an experienced marriage counselor in San Diego? When relationships face challenges, having the right support can make all the difference. At Couple Connection San Diego, we provide professional marriage counseling in a warm, welcoming environment where you and your partner can work through difficulties and rebuild your connection.
Our San Diego office, conveniently located in Clairemont, serves couples throughout the area, from La Jolla to Point Loma, Mission Valley to Pacific Beach. Whether you’re facing communication challenges or wanting to strengthen your bond, our licensed therapists are here to help guide you toward a more fulfilling partnership.
Couples Counseling and More
Types Of Therapy We Offer
At Couple Connection San Diego, we provide specialized therapy services to meet your unique relationship needs. Our services include couples therapy for improving communication and connection, premarital counseling for couples preparing for marriage, individual therapy for relationship concerns, and emotionally focused therapy to help rebuild trust and intimacy. We also offer grief counseling and specialized therapy services for military members and their partners. Each service is delivered with care and expertise by our licensed therapists in a comfortable, confidential setting.
Couples Therapy
Individual Therapy
Emotionally Focused Therapy
Premarital Counseling
Therapy for Military Members
San Diego Marriage Counselor
Our Approach
San Diego Marriage Counseling and Couples Therapy
From the first session, we take a neutral stance and focus on understanding how you both experience your relationship. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy, we help couples identify patterns, heal emotional wounds, and create lasting positive change.
Our approach isn’t about finding fault or assigning blame – it’s about rebuilding connection and trust in a safe, supportive environment. Whether you’re facing communication challenges, trust issues, or feeling disconnected, our experienced therapists will guide you toward a stronger, more fulfilling partnership.
Our Values
Alone we can do so little, together we can do so much.
John Bacon Gilbert – Couples Therapist & Marriage Counselor – Couple Connection
Meet Your San Diego Marriage Counselor
John Bacon Gilbert - Couples Therapist – LMFT#125762
John Bacon Gilbert is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist dedicated to helping couples build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Using his expertise in Emotionally Focused Therapy, John creates a safe space where couples can work through challenges and rediscover their connection.
He believes that understanding each partner’s perspective is key to positive change, and brings warmth, insight, and professional guidance to every session. With a deep understanding of relationship dynamics, John helps couples navigate difficult conversations and strengthen their emotional bonds.
In his years of practice, John has helped countless San Diego couples transform their relationships through effective communication and deeper understanding. His commitment to starting sessions on time and maintaining a judgment-free environment allows couples to feel comfortable sharing their concerns and working toward meaningful change.
Our Location in San Diego
Couple Connection San Diego is conveniently located at 5252 Balboa Ave, Suite 500, San Diego, CA 92117. Our welcoming office provides a comfortable, private space for your therapy sessions, designed to help you feel at ease from the moment you arrive. Free parking is available on-site, making your visits stress-free and accessible.
We understand that finding time for therapy can be challenging, which is why we offer flexible scheduling options Monday through Friday, from 9:00 AM to 5:00 PM. Whether you prefer in-person sessions at our office or the convenience of virtual appointments, we’re here to accommodate your schedule and comfort level.
Our central San Diego location is easily accessible from major highways and surrounding neighborhoods, including Clairemont, Kearny Mesa, and Linda Vista. We’re just minutes away from the 805 and 163 freeways, making it convenient for couples throughout the San Diego area to access our services.
The office environment is thoughtfully designed to provide a calming, professional atmosphere where you can focus on strengthening your relationship. Our private consultation rooms ensure confidentiality and comfort during your sessions.
To schedule your free 15-minute consultation or book an appointment, call us at (877) 940-3047. We’re happy to answer any questions you may have about our location, parking, or appointment availability. We look forward to supporting you on your journey to a stronger relationship.
Get The Therapy You Need
Insurance & Payment Options
Getting help for your relationship shouldn’t be limited by financial concerns. At Couple Connection San Diego, we’ve partnered with Mentaya to make therapy more accessible through your insurance’s out-of-network benefits. This service streamlines the reimbursement process, helping you save money on your therapy sessions.
Before your first appointment, you can use Mentaya’s simple tool to verify your insurance coverage and understand your potential reimbursement. We’re committed to transparency about costs and will help you understand your payment options before beginning therapy.
We accept all major credit cards and provide detailed documentation needed for insurance reimbursement. Contact us to learn more about payment options and how we can make therapy work within your budget.
It's Easy To Get The Help You Need
Schedule Your Free Consultation
Taking the first step toward couples therapy shows your commitment to creating positive change in your relationship. To help you make an informed decision about working with us, we offer a complimentary 15-minute phone consultation. During this call, you can ask questions about our approach, discuss your specific needs, and ensure we’re the right fit for you.
Ready to begin? Call (877) 940-3047 to schedule your free consultation, or simply fill out our contact form. Our caring team will respond promptly to help you take the next step toward a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
Free 15 Minute Consultation
Common Questions About Marriage Counseling
How do I know if we need marriage counseling?
If you’re asking this question, it’s worth exploring. Most couples seek counseling when they notice recurring arguments, feel emotionally distant, or struggle to communicate effectively. You don’t need to be in crisis to benefit from therapy – many couples use counseling to strengthen an already stable relationship.
What happens in the first session?
Your first session is about getting comfortable and helping us understand your relationship. We’ll talk about what brings you to therapy, your relationship history, and what you hope to achieve. Both partners will have time to share their perspective, and we’ll work together to create a plan for moving forward.
How long are the sessions?
Each session is 50 minutes long. We’ve found this timing allows for meaningful work while fitting comfortably into your schedule. For couples in crisis or those who prefer longer sessions, we can arrange extended 80-minute appointments.
What if my partner is reluctant to try counseling?
This is very common. Often, one partner is more hesitant about therapy than the other. We suggest starting with our free 15-minute consultation – it’s a low-pressure way to ask questions and get a feel for our approach. Your partner can simply listen if they prefer.
How often do we need to come?
Most couples start with weekly sessions to build momentum and establish a strong foundation for change. As you progress, we can adjust the frequency based on your needs and goals. Some couples then move to bi-weekly sessions or monthly check-ins.
Will you tell us if we should stay together or separate?
No – that’s not our role. Our job is to help you understand your relationship better and develop the tools to make your own informed decisions. We create a space where you can explore your feelings and options without judgment.
What if we just can't afford it right now?
We understand that therapy is an investment. That’s why we work with Mentaya to help you access out-of-network insurance benefits. We can also discuss frequency options to make therapy more manageable for your budget. Remember, investing in your relationship now can prevent more costly challenges down the road.
Neighborhoods and Communities in San Diego, CA
- Clairemont
- Kearny Mesa
- Linda Vista
- Bay Park
- Mission Valley
- Serra Mesa
- Tierrasanta
- Pacific Beach
- University City
- Mira Mesa
- North Park
- Mission Heights
- Hillcrest
- Point Loma
- Ocean Beach
- La Jolla
